YOU might be INFECTED !! Have you taken the TEST yet!
Haven’t we all heard about how important and necessary it is to take an aptitude test before we choose what career to pick ?
MARITUDE TEST ! Take it Before to it’s Late!
Have you ever taken a test that looks into your reasoning and numerical capacity before you are chosen for a job role?
I’m sure most of us have gone through a entrance exam test before we are admitted to a university or college !
Oh even the little children have to go through an interview to so that the school principals understand their capacity at the age of 3 or 4 years of age !
Well my point is if you HAVE to take all these tests for so many things so that you are SURE that you are picking the right job/right career/right school/ right employee THEN why don’t we have a test to check if we are Eligible for Marriage?
THE MARITUDE TEST!
Our Society ( specially INDIAN) should conduct this test once the boy or girl hits the so called marriageable age I assume looking back the standard – it should 22 and above…
No person may it be a girl of a boy should be allowed to enter a HOLY contract of marriage if he or she doesn’t score at least 7 out of 10 !
So what does the test involve? What should be looked at ?
MARITUDE TEST – SAMPLE PAPER !
( If you get a good score and you think you are on ! THEN please tie the knot!! ITS A BEAUTIFUL HOLY UNION !)
# 1 Do I want to Marry now ?
The most important question you need to answer ! You want to ? Do you feel ready ! Take a step back and breathe … and answer !
# 2 I KNOW WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR (SELFAWARENESS)
7 out of 10 people I come across dont have a clue of what they want in a partner … They are been told or know – I don’t want to live here, I don’t want to do this, I don’t want a short man/woman etc etc ! BUT they do not know what THEY WANT !!
When you make a list of what you want they are blank ! So, YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IN A MAN/WOMAN
# 3 WHY DO YOU WANT TO MARRY
Now,This is such a disaster ! Most of the people I know are married because they had to! Or were crossing the age barrier ( let me know get started with that !)
When I asked so many of them why do you want to marry the most popular answer was, “ Bass ( means – enough in hindi) .. how long will I stay alone.. Mom Dad also want me to be married, everyone else are having children, everyone has someone to cuddle and talk “ and I am like ‘WHAT !” that is the reason you wanna tie the knot ! You might as well go on a date instead .. and get some action in life !
So, Before you decide to get married PLEASE make sure you know why you want to marry !! it could be as simple as I now want to share mu life with someone special ( then you have to go back to point 1!)
# 4 AM I READY TO GIVE UP SOME THINGS ?
Marriage , is a crazy bond ! it gives you a lot and asks you to give up a lot more … and it still should feel right ! may it be man or a woman.. you should be ready – I mean happily be ok with giving up certain things not out of force but love
Are you up for it ? Think twice – only then take the decision and if you want to partially take on this point – then communicate this CLEARY to your partner !
# 5 SACRIFICE AND ADJUSTMENT
Listen ! Seriously how much ever crap we listen in today’s society that there is not adjustment done – It’s a total bull !!
Every marriage /relationship needs a little sacrifice and adjustments to keep it running and healthy. And this does not mean one of them needs to do it – BOTH are equally involved and responsible for it !
# 6 TIME
OH boy ! That’s a touchy topic isn’t it ! Are you ready to give time to yourself and partner and your marriage with all the other things you are doing.
Have you reached that stage – that you want to INVEST you valuable time in the most valuable asset of your life ? IF yes – go right ahead – if NO then, hold your horses!
# 7 COMMITMENT & LOVE
Both are totally needed in a marriage, you might have highs and lows… its understood but you need to be committed in working it out. If not you should love your self and the other to be clear enough- so that you let the other go !
Have you got that ?
# 8 CLARITY & COMMUNICATION
Before you tie the knot or you are getting all mushy – remember you clearly communicate how you feel. It leads to understanding… or late after a while clarity turns into misunderstandings and communication is almost lost!
# 9 TRUST & FAITH
Do you have the faith in the institution of Marriage ? Do you trust yourself in the union – if you don’t you can never keep the other person’s trust and faith in you !
You will always keep doubting only because you lack trust in yourself, and in this holy union !
So… before you decide to tie the knot – TAKE THE TEST ! MARITUDE TEST !